Jill Stanley
My heart and soul are so very heavy for Richard’s family. Grief is the hardest, never ending emotional cycle to live with. I hope you all find comfort and his presence in all of these memories. Richard was a part of my story 30 years ago! Although the edges of those pages are a little bit faded they are still very vivid. I remember a 16 year old Richard with chocolate and peanut butter in his braces after eating a Reese’s cup and attempting to rinse it down with Dr. Pepper. The scent of way too much CK one on his denim trench coat and the LA looks gel that slicked back the skater style hair he sported. Even 30 years ago he found a way to make everything into a joke, even making his mom blush with some of them just for the reaction of anyone that thought it was funny, or even better if they didn’t think it was funny. Even 30 years ago he was an artist. I remember him painting a mural on his bedroom wall of a handgun with some other dark shadows of faces and off the wall expressions or quotes he thought of. The landlord made him paint over it. Just like later in his life he had a new canvas with every new tattoo. Ironic. I never got around to getting a tattoo on my skin, but Richard left a tattoo in my book. I hope you all remember energy cannot be destroyed. It’s just changed into a new form, much like the blank canvas. Richard always had strong energy. My thoughts are with you all.
-Jill (Daniel) Stanley